If somebody has started encroaching upon your mental space, if somebody has really started affecting the way you go about your day-to-day activities—the other person has started showing up his presence even where he should not be—then you should know that the relationship is not going in a healthy way. You should know where to draw the line.
Similarly, you have to see whether a particular angle of domination is creeping into the relationship. Our unhealthy tendencies show up in the most pronounced way in our relationships, especially if the relationship has a romantic or a sexual character. Then all the garbage that otherwise keeps lying hidden within just shows up in all its crudeness and with all the stink.
This article has been created by volunteers of the PrashantAdvait Foundation from transcriptions of sessions by Acharya Prashant
