Question: Sir, I have observed that if I have someone to blame, then my anger gets energy. Otherwise, it subsides with time. Why does this happen?
Answer: Isn’t it true that even our anger expresses itself only at the relatively weak? Can we dare to be angry at everybody? Calculated emotions.
When one is sure from within, then spontaneous action occurs. Nothing is prohibited in it, and there is complete freedom to act anyway you like.
So, there is then so much freedom to act (in any and all ways) that one does not need to fake.
E.g., there might be a time to display anger on someone. When I know that this is the right time to be angry, then I need not feel guilty for being angry. I can freely be angry. There is no need to fake calmness. Anger is alright.
Similarly, there may be a right time to walk away. Then you need not fake that you want to still stay. When you are sure, then you are free of pressure and guilt, and then you do not fake.
Question: Sir, is this decision of being angry and to walk away decided by the person on basis of his knowledge or on the basis of intelligence?
