On leaving behind money for one’s children, and other responsibilities
Questioner (Q): Acharya Ji, should one not leave money for his children? Is that not my responsibility towards my family?
Acharya Prashant (AP): By giving them X or Y tangible things, would you really be able to do them some good? You have a son, and that son becomes an aggregate of influences and a bundle of conditioning. What will he do with all the money that you leave behind for him? What will he do with that money?
Q: I cannot answer this.
AP: You must answer this. Unless your son has a clean mind, what will he do with whatever you leave behind for him? Yes?
Q: Maybe, do the same that we all had done.
AP: Use all your money for his own destruction. The more would be the money that you leave for him, the quicker would be his destruction. And if you have really been a loving father, would your son really be in a need of money? First of all, he would need very little money. Secondly, he would be empowered enough to earn on his own and probably give a little to you as well. If money is the gift that a father leaves behind for the son, then it’s a very petty gift – and in fact a dangerous gift. In fact, only a loveless father would think of primarily money to bequeath to the son.
