“Anybody can come and spoil my mood. And even to correct my mood, I need some external help: I need to watch a movie, I need to listen to some kind of music, I need to talk to my best friend. I at least need to sleep to correct my mood.” This is such a deep slavery. Anybody can spoil your mood.
But there is another way of living. Want to know of that? That is when whatever is happening happens only on the surface. Deep within myself, I find a point that no external situation can touch.